stonewaller · run 01

2026-08-20T01:08:57.670Z · commit bad81caeb34 · 6 turns · 100,169 tokens · 64s
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Turn 1the opener

Congratulations to you both!

Most couples book their venue first and their photographer second, and photographers in a popular area go about twelve months ahead. I work from real UK data, Bridebook’s 2026 UK Wedding Report (7,000 UK couples).

I can create a month-by-month plan with your own real dates once I have even a rough year.

What year are you thinking of getting married?

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Turn 2typed a message
No idea yet.

No problem — you don’t need a date yet. Start with a rough horizon instead: within 12 months, 1–2 years, or completely open-ended. Once you choose one, I can suggest the right first decisions without locking you into anything.

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Turn 3typed a message
Still no idea.

That’s completely fine. A useful way to begin without choosing a date is to collect inspiration around how you want the day to feel, rather than trying to make decisions: intimate and relaxed, elegant and classic, or colourful and full of energy.

For context, the average UK wedding has 80 reception guests, but personal weddings vary hugely. Bridebook’s 2026 UK Wedding Report (7,000 UK couples) also found that couples are increasingly choosing personal meaning over traditions they do not enjoy.

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getCoachReference
input {
  "topic": "wedding-stats-2026"
}
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  "topic": "wedding-stats-2026",
  "content": "# 2026 UK Wedding Stats (Coach Reference)\n\nQuick-reference current UK figures for grounding advice and reassurance. From\nBridebook's 2026 UK Wedding Report (7,000 UK couples). Use these to normalise\n(\"most couples...\"), reality-check, and answer \"what's typical?\" — not to lecture.\n\n## Headline numbers\n\n- **Average spend: £20,604** (excl. honeymoon & rings); **£25,815** including them.\n  ~25% spend under £10k, ~25% over £26k, 10% over £35k.\n- **Average reception guests: 80** (74 at ceremony, +~21 evening-only). Couples\n  invite ~11% fewer than in 2024.\n- **Average age: 34.8** (39% under 30, 20% over 40).\n- **Average engagement: 23.8 months** (down from 31.2 in 2022). 20% under 12\n  months, 68% under 24.\n- **Peak month: August (17%)**, then May (13%), September (12%).\n- **Peak day: Saturday (47%)**; Mon–Thu 27%, Friday 17%.\n- Gen Z spend ~12% less (£18,485 vs £21,016), mainly via midweek dates.\n\n## Venue & ceremony\n\n- 71% hold the ceremony at the venue; 12% place of worship; 20% outdoor.\n- Top venue types: Hotels 22%, Barns 22%, Country Houses 14%, Pubs/Restaurants 8%.\n- Combined venue + catering median: **£117.10 per head** (up 23% YoY).\n- 1 in 8 couples did *not* have their legal ceremony on the wedding day.\n\n## Per-supplier average spend\n\nVenue hire £6,040 · reception catering £5,406 · evening catering £2,002 · marquee/\ntipi £4,633 · dress £1,532 · planner £1,543 · videographer £1,514 · photographer\n£1,484 · decoration £1,404 · florist £1,187 · reception music £1,061 · rings\n£1,057 · menswear £859 · ceremony music £845 · other entertainment £844 ·\ntransport £593 · toastmaster £514 · celebrant £504 · accessories £449 · hair £417\n· make-up £394 · stationery £378 · cake £360.\n\nPhotographer by duration: <half day £519, half day £911, full day £2,024 (68%\nbook full day), more than full day £1,780.\n\n## How couples plan (relevant to an AI coach)\n\n- **92% use Bridebook**; Hitched second (~45–48%). Social media ~48% (Instagram\n  dominant ~75–83%, TikTok skews Gen Z, Facebook skews older).\n- Research-heavy: view ~13.9 venues digitally, visit ~3.5, read ~6.9 reviews per\n  venue, and **79% book within 4 weeks of first venue contact**.\n- **81% felt frustrated with venue responses early on** — slow/generic replies\n  lose couples fast.\n- **47% create a wedding website.** **57%** leave guest accommodation to guests.\n- **29% of total spend comes from family contributions.**\n\n## AI attitudes (why this product exists)\n\n- **68% would trust AI for part of their planning**; only ~29–32% wouldn't.\n- Most-trusted AI tasks: writing drafts — speeches/vows/invitations (40–42%);\n  wedding-day schedule (19–21%); finding venues (18–24%); finding suppliers\n  (16–19%); comparing vendors (13–15%); seating plans (14%); building a budget\n  (12–13%); honeymoon itineraries (12–13%).\n- Couples want AI to **save time and feel in control** — practical, not gimmick.\n  They still lean on trusted wedding brands, so a coach grounded in real data and\n  their own plan beats a generic assistant.\n\n## What couples value / are shifting toward\n\n- Pricing transparency before contact; prompt clear communication over sales.\n- **Flexibility as the financial lever** — off-peak dates, midweek, fewer guests\n  — rather than scaling back the vision.\n- **Personal meaning over performative tradition.** Following: first dance,\n  speeches, cultural traditions, cake cutting, walking down the aisle. Dropping:\n  religious rituals, gender/role conventions, bouquet toss, some reception\n  traditions. (Speeches appear on both lists — divisive.)\n\n## Sources\n\n`references/knowledge-base/articles/reports/` — especially `report-2026-key-themes-summary.md`,\n`report-2026-wedding-costs-breakdown.md`, `report-2026-planning-behaviors.md`.\n",
  "articles": [
    {
      "slug": "report-2026-wedding-costs-breakdown",
      "title": "2026 UK Wedding Report: Wedding Costs and Budget Breakdown"
    },
    {
      "slug": "report-2026-key-themes-summary",
      "title": "2026 UK Wedding Report: Key Themes and Insights"
    },
    {
      "slug": "report-2026-planning-behaviors",
      "title": "2026 UK Wedding Report: How Couples Plan Their Wedding"
    }
  ]
}
Turn 4typed a message
We really have not thought about any of it.

That’s a perfectly good starting point. For now, you don’t need a date, budget, guest list or style — just let the idea sit without turning it into homework.

When you feel ready, the easiest first step is a relaxed conversation about whether you picture a small, medium or big celebration. No numbers or decisions needed yet.

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Turn 5typed a message
Honestly we just do not know.

Then there’s nothing you need to decide today. Wedding planning can begin with no decisions at all: notice what catches your eye in photos, places or celebrations, and ignore anything that feels like homework. When an idea appears, even a tiny one, we’ll build from there.

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Turn 6typed a message
Same answer.

Understood. I’ll stop asking you to decide anything for now.

There’s no planning task to tackle yet. You can simply browse wedding inspiration together, saving anything that makes you pause, with no need to choose a date, budget, guest count or style.

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