Ten weeks out, and the couple refuses questions. Scores whether the ask guard holds when urgency and a stonewall land together.
Congratulations on your engagement! I’m here to make planning your wedding feel exciting and manageable, from finding things you’ll love to understanding costs and knowing what comes next.
What are your names?
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Ten weeks is tight, but it’s still manageable if we focus only on the decisions that affect everything else first. We’ll keep it practical and work through the essentials in the right order, without trying to perfect every detail at once.
I can tailor the plan and find suitable suppliers once I know roughly where you’re celebrating. Where are you hoping to get married?
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}Start with the three decisions that unlock everything else:
- Set a firm total budget and a rough guest maximum.
- Secure the venue and ceremony arrangements, being flexible on the day or location if needed.
- Contact photographers and any must-have suppliers immediately, with backups ready.
After that, book attire, catering, music, flowers, cake, hair and makeup. Leave favours and decorative details until the essentials are confirmed. Ten weeks means making clear, good-enough decisions quickly, not creating a perfect plan.
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The early\n phases compress or stretch; the last ~3 months are fixed and timing-critical.\n- **What's already done.** Always check the couple's actual progress (live\n checklist/app data if available) before assuming where they are.\n\n**The ordering logic matters more than the exact month:**\n- Venue is the foundation — capacity, catering, date and style all flow from it.\n Don't push later decisions before the venue is booked.\n- Suppliers are ordered by how far ahead they book out and how much else depends\n on them (photographer → florist → stationery). See `supplier-booking.md`.\n- Budget is set early and re-checked at the 3-month mark.\n\n## Phase 1 — Foundations (≈18–13 months out, or \"as early as possible\")\n\nThe vision-and-budget phase. Nothing else can be done well until these are set.\n\n- Announce the engagement; (optional) engagement party.\n- **Set the budget** — total, family contributions, contingency. (`budget.md`)\n- **Start the guest list** — even a rough number; it drives venue size and cost.\n- Decide the rough vision/style and region.\n- Insure the engagement ring (immediate, low-effort).\n- **Start the venue search** — research, shortlist, book viewings. (`venue.md`)\n- **Book the venue and set the date.** This is the gateway to everything else.\n- Decide on wedding insurance.\n- Research ceremony & legal requirements (civil vs religious, notice of marriage).\n- Start a gift list.\n\nCoach focus at this stage: budget + venue. Reassure that it's fine — even\ncorrect — to not be thinking about details yet.\n\n## Phase 2 — Core booking (≈13–7 months out)\n\nLock in the suppliers that book out earliest, and make the big fashion calls.\nOrder roughly by scarcity (see `supplier-booking.md` for lead times and costs):\n\n- Photographer (books furthest ahead) → videographer.\n- Choose the wedding party.\n- Wedding dress (long lead time for order + fittings) → bridesmaid dresses →\n menswear.\n- Florist, cake maker, caterer (if not venue-provided).\n- Reception music (band or DJ), ceremony music.\n- Hair, makeup & beauty stylists.\n- Stationery — save-the-dates first; design invitations.\n- Any specialists (celebrant, toastmaster, entertainers).\n- Wedding website / digital presence (47% of couples make one).\n- Send save-the-dates.\n\nCoach focus: keep momentum, book in scarcity order, watch the budget as real\nquotes replace estimates.\n\n## Phase 3 — Detail planning (≈7–4 months out)\n\nShift from booking to refining and the creative decisions.\n\n- Décor and DIY projects, signage, table styling.\n- Plan the honeymoon (book travel, check documents).\n- Ceremony details — readings, unity moments, personal touches.\n- Hen/stag plans.\n- Start the seating plan.\n- Favours and wedding-party gifts.\n- First-dance song.\n- Start writing speeches and vows.\n- Send formal invitations.\n\nCoach focus: this is where couples either feel creative or overwhelmed — help\nthem sequence it and protect the budget.\n\n## Phase 4 — Final countdown (3 months → 1 week, timing-critical)\n\nThese are fixed to the date regardless of timeline length.\n\n**3 months before:** budget review (`budget.md`); hair & makeup trials; final\ndress & suit fittings; print supplementary stationery (order of service, menus,\nplace cards, table plan); buy wedding rings; weather plan B for outdoor elements.\n\n**1 month before:** confirm every booked supplier; finalise seating plan;\ndelegate day-of roles to the wedding party; buy day-of essentials/emergency kit;\nself-care.\n\n**1 week before:** rehearsal; final celebrations; collect rings; pack for\nhoneymoon; deliberately take a no-wedding night off together.\n\nCoach focus: confirmation and calm. 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}Understood. I won’t ask you for more details.
For today, do only this: find a venue that can host both the ceremony and reception, with availability on 4 November 2026, and make a shortlist of up to five. A venue with in-house catering and furniture will save time and supplier coordination. Once one is secured, book photography, food, music, attire, flowers, cake, and hair and makeup in that order.
Keep the location open until a venue is available and affordable. Ten weeks calls for a simple, well-run day, not a fully customised production.
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}Right now, I can:
- Turn the next ten weeks into a short, prioritised action plan.
- Show your 265-task checklist and identify the one most urgent item.
- Break down realistic UK wedding spending by category, without inventing a personal total.
- Search suppliers country-wide while your location is open, including venues, photographers, caterers, music, attire, flowers and beauty.
- Compare named venues or suppliers.
- Update your wedding date, budget, guest estimate, guest list and checklist in Bridebook when you explicitly tell me to.
The most useful immediate move is to secure a venue that can host the ceremony and reception, then work through availability-based suppliers around it. I can search country-wide venues now, but without a guest count or total budget they would be broad starting options rather than a reliable shortlist.
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Manchester gives you a strong base for a short-notice wedding, with hotels, dedicated venues and suppliers close together. Once we have a rough headcount, I can narrow venue and supplier options to ones that can realistically accommodate your day.
Roughly how many guests are you expecting?
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