Facts given conversationally, then the couple asks if any of it was written down. Scores save narration in prose against receipt cards that must exist.
Congratulations on your engagement! I’m here to make planning your wedding feel exciting and manageable, from finding things you’ll love to understanding costs and knowing what comes next.
What are your names?
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April 2028 gives you a comfortable runway, and around 90 guests is a helpful starting point for venue size and budget decisions. Your planning timeline can now be shaped around the month, with the first focus on the big foundations rather than small details.
Once you have an area in mind, I can make the venue and supplier search much more relevant to you.
Where are you hoping to get married?
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}A £28,000 budget for around 90 guests gives you a clear working figure of roughly £311 per guest, before any contributions or extras. That’s enough to make thoughtful choices, but the venue and catering will need the closest attention because they’ll shape what remains for photography, outfits and the details.
You’ve now got the key starting points in place: April 2028, around 90 guests and £28,000.
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}Yes — your wedding plan now reflects:
- April 2028
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- A £28,000 total budget
The April date is still a month-only preference, not a fixed day.
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The first thing to sort is your venue. It determines your exact date, ceremony setup, catering arrangements and how much of your £28,000 budget remains for everything else, so it’s the decision that unlocks the rest of the planning.
Where are you hoping to get married?
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"content": "# Planning Timeline (Coach Reference)\n\nA phase-by-phase map of when wedding decisions should happen, adapted from the\nBridebook checklist for use by an AI coach. **Do not recite this to a couple.**\nUse it to work out what's appropriate *now* for their stage, what's coming next,\nand what's overdue — then surface only the relevant slice.\n\n## How to read this for a couple\n\nThe timeline is anchored to **months before the wedding**, not calendar dates.\nTwo parameters change it:\n\n- **Timeline length.** The default assumption is ~18 months, but the real average\n UK engagement is ~24 months and 20% of couples plan in under 12. The early\n phases compress or stretch; the last ~3 months are fixed and timing-critical.\n- **What's already done.** Always check the couple's actual progress (live\n checklist/app data if available) before assuming where they are.\n\n**The ordering logic matters more than the exact month:**\n- Venue is the foundation — capacity, catering, date and style all flow from it.\n Don't push later decisions before the venue is booked.\n- Suppliers are ordered by how far ahead they book out and how much else depends\n on them (photographer → florist → stationery). See `supplier-booking.md`.\n- Budget is set early and re-checked at the 3-month mark.\n\n## Phase 1 — Foundations (≈18–13 months out, or \"as early as possible\")\n\nThe vision-and-budget phase. Nothing else can be done well until these are set.\n\n- Announce the engagement; (optional) engagement party.\n- **Set the budget** — total, family contributions, contingency. (`budget.md`)\n- **Start the guest list** — even a rough number; it drives venue size and cost.\n- Decide the rough vision/style and region.\n- Insure the engagement ring (immediate, low-effort).\n- **Start the venue search** — research, shortlist, book viewings. (`venue.md`)\n- **Book the venue and set the date.** This is the gateway to everything else.\n- Decide on wedding insurance.\n- Research ceremony & legal requirements (civil vs religious, notice of marriage).\n- Start a gift list.\n\nCoach focus at this stage: budget + venue. Reassure that it's fine — even\ncorrect — to not be thinking about details yet.\n\n## Phase 2 — Core booking (≈13–7 months out)\n\nLock in the suppliers that book out earliest, and make the big fashion calls.\nOrder roughly by scarcity (see `supplier-booking.md` for lead times and costs):\n\n- Photographer (books furthest ahead) → videographer.\n- Choose the wedding party.\n- Wedding dress (long lead time for order + fittings) → bridesmaid dresses →\n menswear.\n- Florist, cake maker, caterer (if not venue-provided).\n- Reception music (band or DJ), ceremony music.\n- Hair, makeup & beauty stylists.\n- Stationery — save-the-dates first; design invitations.\n- Any specialists (celebrant, toastmaster, entertainers).\n- Wedding website / digital presence (47% of couples make one).\n- Send save-the-dates.\n\nCoach focus: keep momentum, book in scarcity order, watch the budget as real\nquotes replace estimates.\n\n## Phase 3 — Detail planning (≈7–4 months out)\n\nShift from booking to refining and the creative decisions.\n\n- Décor and DIY projects, signage, table styling.\n- Plan the honeymoon (book travel, check documents).\n- Ceremony details — readings, unity moments, personal touches.\n- Hen/stag plans.\n- Start the seating plan.\n- Favours and wedding-party gifts.\n- First-dance song.\n- Start writing speeches and vows.\n- Send formal invitations.\n\nCoach focus: this is where couples either feel creative or overwhelmed — help\nthem sequence it and protect the budget.\n\n## Phase 4 — Final countdown (3 months → 1 week, timing-critical)\n\nThese are fixed to the date regardless of timeline length.\n\n**3 months before:** budget review (`budget.md`); hair & makeup trials; final\ndress & suit fittings; print supplementary stationery (order of service, menus,\nplace cards, table plan); buy wedding rings; weather plan B for outdoor elements.\n\n**1 month before:** confirm every booked supplier; finalise seating plan;\ndelegate day-of roles to the wedding party; buy day-of essentials/emergency kit;\nself-care.\n\n**1 week before:** rehearsal; final celebrations; collect rings; pack for\nhoneymoon; deliberately take a no-wedding night off together.\n\nCoach focus: confirmation and calm. 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Everything else slots into the fixed final-3-months structure.\n\nReassure them: short engagements are common and entirely workable — it just means\nfewer parallel options and faster decisions, not a worse wedding.\n\n## Source\n\nAdapted from `references/knowledge-base/articles/tools/tool-wedding-planning-checklist-guide.md`\nand the 2026 UK Wedding Report. The live Bridebook checklist distributes ~250\ntasks across ~64 groups, parameterised by country and timeline; this reference is\nthe coaching layer on top of that.\n",
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